You can find out the status of a gift from your Gift Tracker page.
If a gift is marked as purchased:
Gift Givers have the option to send gifts directly to you but many have gifts shipped to their own homes so that they can wrap and present the gifts personally. Global shipping delays due to COVID-19 are also slowing down the delivery of gifts. If you have a baby shower or sprinkle planned, we'd recommend waiting to see what gifts are given to you. Even if you're not having an event, it's a good idea to give Gift Givers an adequate amount of time to deliver their gifts.
If a gift is not marked as purchased yet:
There are lots of reasons why Gift Givers may wait to make a purchase. Some may be waiting for payday, for an item to restock, or to make sure the delivery falls on a day when they (or you!) will be home. If a gift is not marked as purchased, we automatically send Gift Givers three reminder emails over the course of two weeks. Typically, one of those emails will prompt them to make their purchase. If you're confident a Gift Giver won't be purchasing the items in their cart, you can remove the items for them.